Monday, August 16, 2010

The Hairfun

Another one of my favorite sites: Hairfun.info. Gotta love the Germans.

Not all of the videos are shampoo vids, they have other stuff on there, mostly dye jobs and some forced stuff. Not that big on the forced shaves, if someone held me down and shaved my head I'd stab them. I love my hair.

The shampoo stuff they do have, from what I've seen on YouTube, are hit or miss. Some are lathery and wonderful (not as much lather as Lather Fantasies, but still pretty good), some not so much. I do want to buy at least one of their videos, they're a bit steeper than the Shampooguys videos but maybe they'll be worth the price.

I am waiting until I get to school, and until I get a new job, to get any new videos.

Still looking for two guys on a girl though! Seriously, how is it I can only find moments of it in Herbal Essences commercial but two girls shampooing a guy can be found all over the place? Or so it seems anyway.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Being Tied Up

I used to be really into kinky stuff. I'd want my boyfriends to tie me up during intimate acts, though we never did. Now, the idea of being tied up or held down for anything sexual scares the crap outta me, having actually experienced assault. Sex needs to feel 100% safe for me. Even without bondage, even with the man I love, intimacy can be frightening.

Maybe that's why I like shampooing so much now, it's not scary. It's romantic, and sensual, and it's sweet to be pampered and feel so taken care of.

Anyway, sometimes being tied up and forcefully shampooed. Not sure if I'd actually like it, but it's certainly an exciting fantasy.

Hairdresser Mishap

Here's a funny story. Well, not funny for me, more of a letdown due to carelessness.

I don't exactly get aroused when I get my hair washed at the salon. Nevertheless, I look forward to it with more excitement than a normal person, and I try not to look like I'm enjoying it as much as I am. Like I said, I try to hide this, especially since my mom caught onto how much I liked it back when I was in my preteen years. Talk about embarassing.

Anyway, I was at the sink, my stylist was busy gabbing. She wet my hair . . . and then nothing . . . then she wet my hair again and conditioned it. She was so busy talking she forgot to wash my hair! Yeah, seriously. And I purposely modified my washing schedule so my hair would be in need of a good scrubbing that day.

(I wash my hair every other day, to avoid over-drying it)

Hopefully when I go in for my back-to-school trim whoever washes my hair will remember to, y'know, actually wash it.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Commercial Videos



For the most part, shampoo commercials suck ass. Like I said before, I don't need to see a lady shampooing her hair. But there are a few gems out there, like this one, with some good hair washing moments, if only for a a few seconds. Just look at the lather, there's a shampoo I could go for!

As if they ever lather up like that so easily.

Oh, and I don't even bother with those long advertisements for some fancy ass shampoo - you know, five minutes advertising a shampoo I could never afford, some bullshit haircare "technology"? I'll stick with Herbal Essences, thanks. But anyway, I'd never watch it just for the five seconds of the actual shampoo, I'm not going to watch it up to that point, nor do I feel up to browsing the darn video for the washing bit. It's never worth it.

Weekend Stuff

Lots of good stuff going on these days! For one thing, I have a job interview lined up for Friday, and it looks like I'll be scheduling another one for the same day. I hope I get one of these jobs becaise I do not want to go back to working in the movie theater. Shit sucked man, never underestimate what service workers go through on a daily basis. I mean that lady attacking people at a McDonalds drive thru may be extreme but it's not far off from the norm really.

Anyway, after the interviews I'll be seeing my boyfriend for the weekend! I haven't seen him in 3 weeks, we're apart for the summer. I may get a shampoo or two, last time he washed my hair the whole thing was super romantic. There was a lightning storm that night and I think there was magic in the air that night. Who knows, maybe we'll have a night like that this weekend. And who knows, maybe I'll have the guts to show him a clip from Lather Fantasies and tell him that's what I want done to me.

But I hate making too many requests. I feel silly enough asking guys to wash my hair, let alone being specific and wanting just a shampoo, out of the shower, over a sink or tub - just washing, nothing else, maybe some more mutual intimacy afterwards. But I feel weird being pampered like that, like being waited on, I hate to make someone go too much out of their way for me, I feel guilty about it.

Then again, if I'm so close to someone, maybe I should reveal my true fantasies. There was just an instance last summer where a guy told me his deep desire was to see me hairless down there, and went into this huge thing about how my not shaving was selfish since he did what I wanted, and it was my turn to do something for him. Not that he did it well, honestly, but I'll give him credit for trying.

I've always wanted to have a bubble bath with a guy. To me, being shampooed in the bath seems so ideal - perfect atmosphere, I'm sitting down instead of standing up, and if he's in there with me, it feels more intimate and romantic. Now all we need is a tub big enough for both of us.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Thoughts on Making Videos

I really admire the websites who do this work. It sounds weird to admire an erotica site, but I love their work, and I appreciate that someone is making these. If they didn't, I wouldn't have anything to watch now would I?

Er, I sound dumb don't I?

Anyway, they say if you want something done right, you should do it yourself. I have thought of contributing to this community - not by lathering up in front of a camera or filimg my friend washing my hair - ok maybe the latter, though that would entail not only telling someone about my fetish but asking him or her to wash my hair, for a camera, for a video that would go online.

That's scary! What if I run for office someday and someone finds that video and releases it? Talk about an embarassing relevation. I've also thought about becoming a hair model for someone else, but again, the idea that it could get out like that is scary as frick.

And there's the idea that guys would be jacking off to me. Yeah, they may be jacking off to this writing (which isn't actually for that purpose, but you can't exactly stop a man from whacking off in his own home to whatever tickles his fancy), but that's just my work, my writing, no one can see me and no one knows who I am. At least I hope not.

If I didn't dream of being in the public eye, maybe I would start my own website, get a nice camera, round up some more models, and make some nice, bubbly videos made especially for girls with this fetish. I wish there were more websites and videos for that section of the community, which I'm sure I've already written to the death.

Lathery days!
Bubbles <3

Monday, August 9, 2010

The Stranger Meetup

I've never met with a stranger for a shampoo, or anyone just for a wash for that matter. I've only been shampooed by boyfriends . . . and my cousin once, but that wasn't a sexual thing, she'd had her hair washed in a salon for the first time and wanted to wash my sister's hair, and offered to wash mine too. Maybe she developed the same fetish, but I wouldn't bring it up with her.

I've absolutely thought about it, don't get me wrong. I wouldn't now, since I have a boyfriend, but sometimes the thought of someday putting an ad on Craig's List for a shampoo encounter in my area has crossed my mind.

But the idea is totally scary as well as exciting. I mean, just like any erotic encounter with a stranger, there are serious risks - I could be violated or hurt, maybe even killed by some sick perv who likes a whole lot more than washing hair. I certainly wouldn't want to have sex as part of the deal, just a shampoo and on with my day, though the guy might feel entitled to sex or feel like sex should be part of the deal. The whole thing just seems too scary too risk doing.

I've also fantaszied about meeting a guy who shampooing as much as I like having my hair washed. It's great having a boyfriend who's simply willing to wash my hair, it's really sweet, but to actually date someone with the same fetish would be awesome. Or maybe not, if he'd want to do it every day and end up overwashing my hair. But sometimes I do have the fantasy where I get close to a guy, and he shyly asks if he can wash my hair, and I go to his place, and he shampoos me in the sink, or upright in the kitchen.

I feel like a slut for even thinking of this, having a boyfriend. Part of me thinks there's no harm in dreaming, since I know deep down I'd never trade my boyfriend for anyone. But if he finds this blog, he might not take too kindly to some of the things I say on here.

Dear god I hope no one I know finds this.

New Favorite Website

I LOVE Lather Fantasies! I saw their YouTube videos the other day, and they're like nothing I've ever seen before. Well, they're sort of like the Shampoo of the Supervixen video, sans the shaving cream and fake moaning, in that they contain lots of lather and awesome hair washing. As they advertise, no nudity or harm which is fantastic, then again none of the other websites I've grown fond of use nudity either.

I haven't actually bought anything from LF yet, since I'm currently living at home and it would be a little awkward if one of my parents saw a package from Lather Fantasies addressed to their daughter. Oncen I get back to school I'll place the order. I'll need to choose carefully though, since I only plan on getting one - they are rather expensive, I like the Shampoo Guys prices better (7-9 bucks USD for a 30 min. video, pretty excellent deal), though I suppose the fact that it's on a DVD may be why the price is so much higher. Anyway, I'm sure it's worth it, like I said this site is like nothing I've ever seen, and their videos really appeal to my deepest shampoo fantasies.

Now, my one issue with it is most of the videos have the girls shampooing, and not a lot of guy-washing-girl action. I can always use more of that!

Ta-ta for now!

- Bubbles <3

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Two Guys, One Girl

I've seen videos with two girls washing a girl's hair, I've seen a couple videos where two girls wash a guy's hair, and I've even seen a video where two guys wash a guy's hair (for part of the video anyway). Well here's what I want to see, one request to the websites that make these videos: Two guys washing a girl's hair. Or three, like the Herbal Essences commercials; but more realistically, two. I'm sure I'm not the only woman with this fantasy, there must be others who want a video like this.

I mean, I'd love to actually be shampooed by two guys at once, but that's even less realistic ^_^

Why Write This?

Warning, this is a bit of a feminist rant. If you don't like feminists, don't read this.

It all started when I joined Shampooforum. I joined to discuss the shampoo fetish, it was the only place I felt comfortable doing so - it's a bit of an embarassing secret for me, only a few of my friends know about it. However, I didn't exactly feel comfortable posting there after a while.

1) I soon began to recieve e-mails from a guy wanting to discuss fantasies. He was a stranger, and old enough to be my dad, so I told him I wasn't comfortable with the idea, he persisted. Ugh! Don't try that with me, I won't do it. I'm not going to be anyone's cyber whore, got it?

2) The community mostly catered to straight males. The guy-on-guy videos from the Shampooguys Youtube account received angry, homophobic comments. The guys didn't want to see no homo stuff, even though I'm pretty sure there were gay members. Nope, I guess the site wasn't for them, or girls like me who kind of liked that stuff (I prefer videos of guys washing girls, but when a guy's hair is long and the lather thick, I'll take it). The few other girls who did post mostly posted for the guys, rather than with them. "Look at me washing my hair!" or erotic writing meant to arouse the guys, discussing just how much they love being shampooed. Yeah, I love it too, but I don't write about it in a way meant to pitch tents (if ya know what I mean).

3) A guy uploaded videos of women being shampooed in a salon. They had not consented to being filmed, they didn't even know what was happening. To me, that was over the line. Being filmed walking down the street for stock footage? Fine. Being filmed for erotic purposes without consent? Icky and weird. I protested, saying it was wrong, and was told that because it was legal, I should shut up and post a video of myself lathering up for teh menz on the forum. What? I don't tell the guys to lather up their girlfriends for my pleasure, why was I being treated like nothing more than a head of hair?

I used to comment on the shampoo videos on YouTube, until I realized that people I knew could see my account, and could see my comments. I was also getting messages and comments from perverts trying to hit on me. Gee, wonderful.

I realized that the role of women in the shampoo community is crap. We're seen as eye candy, or potential eye candy I guess - it's like the man can't accept that I'm there to watch videos, not be in them! Have I considered being in that kind of video? Sure, and I'd love to have my hair washed and get paid for it, but I want to run for office someday, so being in any sort of erotic video can come back to bite me in the ass. That's why, as you'll notice, this blog is completely anonymous. I'm only hoping no one I know finds this and reads the background entry, they might be able to figure it out, which kinda scares me.

However, I have stuff to say. I want the men in the shampoo fetish community (or SFC as I may refer to it when lazy) to see things from my perspective, a female's perspective, and I want to have a voice, which is hard since the forum was taken down and the only website to come out of it was a website consisting of pictures only - no forum. I want myself and the other women with the same fetish to be seen as active participants with desire, rather than performers pandering to the male gaze.